Being a bottom often comes with its own set of societal narratives, some empowering, others limiting. For far too long, the passive role in sex has been equated with a passive role in life. But this couldn’t be further from the truth. Whether you’re 18 or 80, in a relationship, single, or somewhere in between, being a bottom can be a source of great personal power when you approach it from a place of confidence and self-assertion. Drawing from assertiveness training, practical psychology, and my personal journey, this blog is for any bottom who wants to live fully, without apology, and on their terms. On this journey, I will challenge stereotypes, dismantle toxic power dynamics, and rewrite the script that has long dictated what it means to be a bottom. You’ll learn that vulnerability is not weakness—it’s strength, and submission doesn’t negate power; it enhances it when done with intention.